1. Don’t confuse SILENCE with LOVE.
    Just because you find a man who is silent does not mean he loves you. This person’s personality is what makes him to be silent. Those ladies who don’t want to be corrected usually go for the silent people. Only to find out they entered into the wrong relationship.
  2. Don’t confuse APPEARANCE with LOVE. A lady will be like, “I love that man” and you ask her what do you mean. She will tell you that the man has a six pack. Ladies be very careful there are men with twenty packs but love is Zero. A woman will be like I want to be close to the man and take photos together so that I can put it on Facebook. You might find a John Cena but love is zero.
    Ask a man why does he love you? If he tells you because you are beautiful go back to the crossroad and check for the right path. If a man loves you for beauty, there will be more beautiful ladies after marriage what makes you think he will not fall for beauty. What will happen when your beauty is gone the man will leave because he fell for beauty and not love.
  3. Don’t confuse MONEY with LOVE. A lady would think she loves the guy but wait until the money is finished you will find the true colours of the woman. ALL of a sudden she develops moods. You can ask her a simple question like how are you? And because you are broke she will give you an answer like “why are you asking me, can’t you see am fine”. When you have money you can give her a call and your phone might not be clear but the way the woman will respond “don’t worry dear it’s not you its my phone that has a problem” and you know that it’s your phone that has a problem.
    A lady might be pursuing you wait until you buy her a nice car. All of a sudden she is quiet. It means she was lusting for the car not you.
  4. Don’t confuse a GOOD HOLIDAY with LOVE. A lady would tell you that if she finds a man who will take her to Dubai she will marry that man. The devil will bring a man who will take her out on a nice holiday and the lady will fall for the snare of the devil. The man will make the lady pregnant and run away. Love is love and a good holiday is a good holiday.
  5. Don’t confuse SIMILAR EXPERINCES or LIKES with LOVE.
    Just because you find a man who is divorced and you are also divorced or you went through common background in your childhood does not mean you love each other. Many people are getting into the wrong relationships because of confusing shared experiences with love. Just because you like the same movies, hobbies, songs does not mean you love each other. LIKES are LIKES and LOVE is LOVE.
  6. Don’t confuse LUST with LOVE.
    Many relationships are breaking because of sex. In counseling ask a married couple why they want to break up and you will find sex is an issue in marriage. If you get married because of sex, the devil will bring people close to you who are even better and what makes you think that you will not fall for sex while in marriage.
    A woman will lust for a car when she gets the car she will dissappear.
  7. Don’t confuse GIFTS with LOVE.
    Gifts are gifts and love is love. Some ladies will say this man loves me because he send gifts. And leave out a man who is a potential husband because this man might be broke to buy gifts.
  8. Don’t confuse TEXT MESSAGES for LOVE.
    A lady will compare two people, and will fall for the one who texts everyday. Ignoring the one who is silent. If you check the background you might find the boyfriend has the gift of writing. This guy writes on everything, this guy is a journalist. Don’t confuse text messages with love. We have people in this world who are gifted in arts. We have people are good actors, poets, they are skilled in arts but it doesn’t mean they love you. They are people who are gifted they can sing to everyone and everywhere they sing don’t confuse with love.
  9. Don’t confuse a SHOULDER to lean on with LOVE. Some people have the gift of HELPS. They help everybody and just because the man was able to help you in your time of need does not mean they love you. Check their background you will find out they like HELPING people. Wish you all a happy weekend.


  1. SMiles.. Been
    Married Long 30
    Years wandering
    Around online
    For close to
    10 Years Now
    This is All Good
    Advice Lots of
    Folks surely
    Prey upon
    Each Other
    In Social Distance
    Of No Touch
    And Farther
    Away From Each
    Other truly if the
    Rest of Nature
    A Sigh of
    Relief Now
    It Does From
    All The Pillaging
    Raping Maiming
    Killing of God’s
    Face Nature
    The Zombies
    Not Recognizing
    Nature is All Our
    Face Karma
    Sweet Nothing..
    Question now
    Is Change
    Or continue
    A Default on Loan..:)

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      Marriage is a lottery in which men stake their liberty and women their happiness. Marriages are made in heaven and consummated on earth. Marriage is the only union that cant be reorganised. Jesus is the head; we’re both managers, true love makes us become one. We’re two different people but united by a supreme bond;that always be together like a pair of shoes. Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman,but blessed is the woman who is the last love of a man. The difficulty in marriage comes when one falls in love with personality but must live with a character. There is no more lovely,friendly and charming relationship,communion of company than a good marriage. It is always incomprehensible to a man that a woman should ever refuse an offer of marriage. Marriage is a matter of give and take,but so far i haven’t been able to find anybody who’ll take what i have to give. Love is an ocean of emotions entirely surrounded by expenses. Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly. Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, and half shut afterwards. Where there is marriage without love, there will be love without marriage. Love and work are the cornerstones of our humanness. A man is incomplete until he is married. Husbands are likes fires. They go out if unattended. It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and preserving courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations. We love because its the only adventure. We look forward to the time when the power to love will replace the love of power. Then will our world know the blessings of peace. Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing; a confusion of the real with the ideal never goes Unpunished. A coward is a hero with a wife and kids. Marriage is like a lottery, but you cant tear up your ticket if you lose. To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage.

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